My friend has a really bad historical tract of meeting ‘the wrong guy.’ It just keeps happening to her. She is such a sweetie, and I love her forever…being one of my besties…but she just has NO LUCK When it comes to men! She has asked me why men are always crawling all over me, when we both shop at the same stores, wear the same types of perfumes, do our hair at the same salon, and I will admit (while she is nice enough not to say it), she is more attractive than I am. I do not consider myself promiscuous, none of my friends would consider my promiscuous…in fact, they’d all call me the most conservative of us all (yes, despite my religious beliefs – but I actually consider Wicca the most conservative religion of them all…though that is a topic for another day). So, she asks “Why do you get all the good guys and I get all the bad ones?” And this isn’t the first time my friends have asked me that. I have had other friends ask why I seem to be able to get any man I want, while they aren’t able to get any man they want. Some aren’t able to get any men at all…but I’ll say this right now: no man is better than a bad man!
So, let’s focus on getting you a GOOD man, as I have helped my friends before, and will help this friend as well. Although I am typing this guide up specifically for my friend, I will make it more general so that anyone can use it and so that it can help other people too. (Cuz that’s the Wiccan way!! =D)
Without any further ado or delay…
Identify the type of Spell or Magick
It is important to understand that there are a lot of different types of relationship and love problems. If there is someone else involved, then a banishment spell or a “remove a third party” or “remove negative influence” spell may be required. Sometimes, it isn’t necessary. It all depends on how ingrained the third party is, and how deep your connection to your lover is. If they are married, this is going to be more difficult (not impossible and if you are meant to be you should not give up), and you may want to consider doing a divorce spell first.
After you have the spell line up determined, you need to decide how many times to cast each spell and gather all of your ingredients. I have posted about love spells before, so that you can search my blog and find previous love spell recipes. Though, I will include an easy, “all purpose love spell” that you can do with just a red candle and no other ingredient.
Casting an Easy Love Spell with Only a Red Candle
To cast this spell you need a quiet space and you need to have something to carve into the candle, this can be anything (even a key for example). Carve both of your initials into the candle (small so you can fit them within three hearts). Go ahead and carve the three hearts around them as well now too.
Light the candle and chant the following love spell poem three times total:
“At the crest of our connection is a bind that can shine,
We can have a relationship that can age like a fine wine,
We can live our lives together as though it were one whole,
and we can have everything when together as one soul.
So I call upon you Lady o Moon and Goddess of Love, to join me in this spell,
May the energies of love and care thrive in this relationship in great swell!”
Blow out the candle after you are done chanting as you say “I WILL IT BE!”
That is the entire spell. It will be stronger if you do it on a full moon for nearly any love or relationship situation. The only exception would be if it is a new love that you are pursuing, do it on a new moon.
Love Spell Incense that Work
Although you can get away with a generic, simple love spell like the one above if you put your heart into it and repeat it on a regular basis until it manifests…love spell incense will help make the spell stronger and can also help draw love on their own. Burning Rosemary, Frankincense, Cinnamon, or Peppermint for example will help draw power to a love spell.
Casting a Love Spell When You are “The Other Woman”
If you need to do a banishment spell first, do not hesitate to do so! Getting rid of a third party should be the priority if you believe their connection is stronger than your connection. A good banishment spell box or banishment spell will work great. Get a picture of the two people that you want to separate (can be one photo of each of them or one of them together) and put it into a box with a cup of thyme. Wrap a black string around the box several times and tie it off. Keep the box somewhere safe until the banishment spell manifests. No one likes to be the other woman, and if you really love this man, that means this other woman has to go. Banishment spells can be done correctly without backfire, if the relationship between you and the man is meant to be!
And no matter the situation…
Another important note…my friend specifically took note that we “wore the same perfume” in her long list of rants as to why men would choose me over her when we are the same…I had to advise her right away that this statement wasn’t true. While, yes, we both own some normal perfumes…I do not only wear normal perfume. I wear love spell pheromones and love spell potions (effectively love spell perfumes). Love spell perfumes make things WAY EASIER. While you can make one yourself, it will never be as effective as going to a specialist (just like if you need a tooth cleaning you go to a dental hygienist, if you need a cavity filling you get the dentist…and if you need a really bad extraction, you might go to a special dental surgeon). In this case, that specialist would be a love potion, perfume or lotion specialist. Be careful as there are a lot of scams out there, however, one of the best ones and one that I really recommend is Siren Myst from Venitie.com.
Although they are a little on the expensive side, they are the most effective love spell perfume (or potion, it just isn’t a consumable, as many potions are not consumable). A few sprays of Venitie’s Siren Myst and the men come crawling and falling all over themselves for you. I got her a bottle as a gift to help her, along with a cauldron so she could burn some love incense too around the house. That’s one of the easiest ways for someone who doesn’t know how to do magick to do a love spell that will actually work and bring the person back…incense and love perfume work more influential energy than people realize and can be really powerful when done correctly.
With effort and care, you will have your man in no time! Comment if you have a question or need help!
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